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  • LUXURY HOMES FOR SALE: 4740 Rancho Del Mar Trail San Diego, CA

    Posted by admin on April 12th, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | No Comments »

    PRICE: $9,995,000 CONTACT: CONTACT: Jo Sawyer at Jo Sawyer & Associates Prudential California Realty P.O. Box 2708 6119 La Granada Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067 Direct: (858) 395-9009 Fax: (858) 481-9978 E-mail: jo@josawyer.com ——- Fabulous Itialian Villa on the best lot in Rancho Pacifica, Panoramic views of the Golf Course, Ocean and valley. Built by Agee in 2003 this property has it all. Detached Guest House, 5 bedrooms 7 1/2 baths including outside pool bath. Expansive back yard with lush landscaping, pool, spa and covered entertainment pavillion. The home has a game room with wetbar and walk-in wine cellar, Immaculate in every regard.

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    This is too true to be funny. What the heck happened?????

    Posted by admin on April 12th, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | 8 Comments »

    The next time you hear a politician use the
    word ‘billion’ in a casual manner, think about
    whether you want the ‘politicians’ spending
    YOUR tax money.

    A billion is a difficult number to comprehend,
    but one advertising agency did a good job of
    putting that figure into some perspective in
    one of its releases.

    A.
    A billion seconds ago it was 1959.

    B.
    A billion minutes ago Jesus was alive.

    C.
    A billion hours ago our ancestors were
    living in the Stone Age.

    D.
    A billion days ago no-one walked on the earth on two feet.

    E.
    A billion dollars ago was only
    8 hours and 20 minutes,
    at the rate our government
    is spending it.
    While this thought is still fresh in our brain, let’s take a look at New Orleans It’s amazing what you can learn with some simple division

    Louisiana Senator,
    Mary Landrieu (D),
    is presently asking the Congress for
    $250 BILLION
    to rebuild New Orleans . Interesting number,
    what does it mean?

    A.
    Well, if you are one of
    484,674 residents of
    New Orleans
    (every man, woman, child),
    you each get $516,528.

    B.
    Or, if you have one of the 188,251 homes in
    New Orleans , your home gets $1,329,787.

    C.
    Or, if you are a family of four, your family gets
    $2,066,012.

    Washington, D. C
    < HELLO! >
    Are all your calculators broken??

    Accounts Receivable Tax
    Building Permit Tax
    CDL License Tax
    Cigarette Tax
    Corporate Income Tax
    Dog License Tax
    Federal Income Tax
    Federal Unemployment Tax (FUTA)
    Fishing License Tax
    Food License Tax
    Fuel Perm it Tax
    Gasoline Tax
    Hunting License Tax
    Inheritance Tax
    Inventory Tax
    IRS Interest Charges (tax on top of tax),
    IRS Penalties (tax on top of tax),
    Liquor Tax,
    Luxury Tax,
    Marriage License Tax,
    Medicare Tax,
    Property Tax,
    Real Estate Tax,
    Service charge taxes,
    Social Security Tax,
    Road Usage Tax (Truckers),
    Sales Taxes,
    Recreational Vehicle Tax,
    School Tax,
    State Income Tax,
    State Unemployment Tax (SUTA),
    Telephone Federal Excise Tax,
    Telephone Federal Universal Service Fe e Tax,
    Telephone Federal, State and Local Su rcharge Tax,
    Telephone Minimum Usage
    Surcharge Tax,
    Telephone Recurring and
    Non-recurring Charges Tax,
    Telephone State and Local Tax,
    Telephone Usage Charge Tax,
    Utility Tax,
    Vehicle Lic ense Registration Tax,
    Vehicle Sales Tax,
    Watercraft Registration Tax,
    Well Permit Tax,
    Workers Compensation Tax.

    STILL THINK THIS IS FUNNY?
    Not one of these taxes existed 100 years ago,
    and our nation was the most prosperous in the world.
    We had absolutely no national debt, had the largest middle class in the world, and Mom stayed home to raise the kids.

    What happened?
    Can you spell ‘politicians!’

    And I still have to
    ‘press 1′
    for English.

    I hope this goes around the
    USA
    at least 100 times

    What the heck happened?????

    O.o i never thought about a million that much but thats starting to make me wonder

    Politicians and taxes…what do YOU think?

    Posted by admin on April 10th, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | 10 Comments »

    What do you think??? Star and pass this along to your voting friends….

    be very funny

    The next time you hear a politician use the

    word ‘billion’ in a casual manner, think about

    whether you want the ‘politicians’ spending

    YOUR tax money.

    A billion is a difficult number to comprehend,

    but one advertising agency did a good job of

    putting that figure into some perspective in

    one of its releases.

    A. A billion seconds ago it was 1959.

    B. A billion minutes ago Jesus was alive.

    C. A billion hours ago our ancestors were

    living in the Stone Age.

    D. A billion days ago no-one walked on the earth on two feet.

    E. A billion dollars ago was only 8 hours and

    20 minutes, at the rate our government is spending it.

    While this thought is still fresh in our brain, let’s take a look at New Orleans It’s amazing what you can learn with some simple division . .

    Louisiana Senator, Mary Landrieu (D), is presently asking the Congress for $250 BILLION to rebuild New Orleans. Interesting number, what does it mean?

    A. Well, if you are one of 484,674 residents of

    New Orleans (every man, woman, child), you

    each get $516,528.

    B. Or, if you have one of the 188,251 homes in

    New Orleans , your home gets $1,329,787.

    C. Or, if you are a family of four, your family

    gets $2,066,012.

    Washington, D.C .. HELLO!!! … Are all your calculators broken??

    Tax his land,
    Tax his wage,
    Tax his bed in which he lays.
    Tax his tractor,
    Tax his mule,
    Teach him taxes are the rule.
    Tax his cow,
    Tax his goat,
    Tax his pants,
    Tax his coat.

    Tax his ties,
    Tax his shirts,
    Tax his work,
    Tax his dirt.

    Tax his tobacco,
    Tax his drink,
    Tax him if he tries to think.

    Tax his booze,
    Tax his beers,
    If he cries,
    Tax his tears.

    Tax his bills,
    Tax his gas,
    Tax his notes,
    Tax his cash.
    Tax him good and let him know
    That after taxes, he has no dough.

    If he hollers,
    Tax him more,
    Tax him until he’s good and sore.

    Tax his coffin,
    Tax his grave,
    Tax the sod in which he lays.
    Put these words upon his tomb,
    ‘Taxes drove me to my doom!’

    And when he’s gone,
    We won’t relax,
    We’ll still be after the inheritance TAX!!

    Accounts Receivable Tax
    Building Permit Tax
    CDL License Tax
    Cigarette Tax
    Corporate Income Tax
    Dog License Tax
    Federal Income Tax
    Federal Unemployment Tax (FUTA)
    Fishing License Tax
    Food License Tax
    Fuel Perm it Tax
    Gasoline Tax
    Hunting License Tax
    Inheritance Tax
    Inventory Tax
    IRS Interest Charges (tax on top of tax),
    IRS Penalties (tax on top of tax),
    Liquor Tax,
    Luxury Tax,
    Marriage License Tax,
    Medicare Tax,
    Property Tax,
    Real Estate Tax,
    Service charge taxes,
    Social Security Tax,
    Road Usage Tax (Truckers),
    Sales Taxes,
    Recreational Vehicle Tax,
    School Tax,
    State Income Tax,
    State Unemployment Tax (SUTA),
    Telephone Federal Excise Tax,
    Telephone Federal Universal Service Fe e Tax,
    Telephone Federal, State and Local Surcharge Tax,
    Telephone Minimum Usage Surcharge Tax,
    Telephone Recurring and Non-recurring Charges Tax,
    Telephone State and Local Tax,
    Telephone Usage Charge Tax,
    Utility Tax,
    Vehicle License Registration Tax,
    Vehicle Sales Tax,
    Watercraft Registration Tax,
    Well Permit Tax,
    Workers Compensation Tax.

    STILL THINK THIS IS FUNNY?
    Not one of these taxes existed 100 years ago,
    and our nation was the most prosperous in the world.
    We had absolutely no national debt, had the largest middle class in the world, and Mom stayed home to raise the kids.

    What happened? Can you spell ‘politicians!’
    IT’S NOT MEANT TO BE FUNNY…IT’S SO VERY SAD THIS STATE OF AFFAIRS WE ARE IN.

    Hi Mangomiata

    I need to send you my respects for the explanation you put forward.Indeed it is a shame to see the way we have been
    miss led by our leaders ,at all levels of government.
    It is mostly scary to me,to see how our tax money,is being wasted in every possible way,in foreign lands,while our citizens are begging for food under our highways bridges.
    What a shame!

    But as for me,I will keep waiting for a better government,
    (Mat 6:10) Let your kingdom come…

    Best regards,and thanks for alerting everyone that read your
    posting

    The Canaryman

    MILLION DOLLAR LUXURY HOME FOR SALE- PHOENIX ARIZONA

    Posted by admin on April 9th, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | No Comments »

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    What is a billion?

    Posted by admin on April 8th, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | 6 Comments »

    What is a BILLION???

    The next time you hear a politician use the word
    "billion" in a casual manner, think about whether you want
    the "politicians" spending your tax money.

    A billion is a difficult number to comprehend, but one
    advertising agency did a good job of putting that figure
    into some perspective in one of its releases.

    a. A billion seconds ago it was 1959.

    b. A billion minutes ago Jesus was alive.

    c. A billion hours ago our ancestors were living in the
    Stone Age.

    d. A billion days ago no-one walked on the earth on two
    feet.

    e. A billion dollars ago was only 8 hours and 20 minutes
    , at the rate our government is spending it.

    While this thought is still fresh in our brain, let’s
    take a look at New Orleans. It’s amazing what you can learn
    with some simple division .

    Louisiana Senator, Mary Landrieu (D), is presently
    asking the Congress for $250 BILLION to rebuild New Orleans.
    Interesting number, what does it mean?

    a. Well, if you are one of 484,674 residents of New
    Orleans (every man, woman, child), you each get $516,528.

    b. Or, if you have one of the 188,251 homes in New
    Orleans, your home gets $1 ,329,787.

    c. Or, if you are a family of four, your family gets
    $2,066,012.

    Washington, D.C. HELLO!!! … Are all your calculators
    broken??

    This is too true to be very funny

    Tax his land,
    Tax his wage,
    Tax his bed in which he lays.

    Tax his tractor,
    Tax his mule,
    Teach him taxes is the rule.

    Tax his cow,
    Tax his goat,
    Tax his pants,
    Tax his coat.

    Tax his ties,
    Tax his shirts,
    Tax his work,
    Tax his dirt.

    Tax his tobacco,
    Tax his drink,
    Tax him if he tries to think.

    Tax his booze,
    Tax his beers,
    If he cries,
    Tax his tears.

    Tax his bills,
    Tax his gas,
    Tax his notes,

    Tax his cash.

    Tax him good and let him know
    That after taxes, he has no dough.

    If he hollers,
    Tax him more,
    Tax him until he’s good and sore.

    Tax his coffin,
    Tax his grave,
    Tax the sod in which he lays.

    Put these words upon his tomb,
    "Taxes drove me to my doom!"

    And when he’s gone,
    We won’t relax,
    We’ll still be after the inheritance TAX!!

    Accounts Receivable Tax
    Building Permit Tax
    CDL License Tax
    Cigarette Tax
    Corporate Income Tax
    Dog License Tax
    Federal Income Tax
    Federal Unemployment Tax (FUTA)

    Fishing License Tax
    Food License Tax
    Fuel Permit Tax
    Gasoline Tax
    Hunting License Tax
    Inheritance Tax
    Inventory Tax
    IRS Interest Charges (tax on top of tax),
    IRS Penalties (tax on top of tax),

    Liquor Tax,
    Luxury Tax,
    Marriage License Tax,
    Medicare Tax,
    Property Tax,
    Real Estate Tax,
    Service charge taxes,
    Social Security Tax,
    Road Usage Tax (Truckers),
    Sales Taxes,

    Recreational Vehicle Tax,
    School Tax,
    State Income Tax,
    State Unemployment Tax (SUTA),
    Telephone Federal Excise Tax,
    Telephone Federal Universal Service Fee Tax,
    Telephone Federal, State and Local Surcharge Tax,

    Telephone Minimum Usage Surcharge Tax,
    Telephone Recurring and Non-recurring Charges Tax,
    Telephone State and Local Tax,
    Telephone Usage Charge Tax,
    Utility Tax,
    Vehicle License Registration Tax,

    Vehicle Sales Tax,
    Watercraft Registration Tax,
    Well Permit Tax,
    Workers Compensation Tax.

    COMMENTS: Not one of these taxes existed 100 years ago
    and there was prosperity, absolutely no national debt,
    the largest middle class in the world and Mom stayed
    home to raise the kids.

    What the hell happened?????
    Got this in an email, and thought I would share it. Responses? (and remember, BOTH current ruling parties have been in control during the past 100 years)…time for a change? What, and how?
    Making laws that protect workers has nothing to do with taxation. THAT is not where we went wrong, and the other examples show at best, no societal growth, when you take into account that environemental factors causing cancer in the workplace have replaced the lack of safety mechanisms. We just replaced one hazzard with another. Could this be because of the ineffectiveness of gov’t? And their intrusion into tings that theyare nt qualified to deal with, and are poltically motivated to answer?
    Feo, they would suffer the same fate as the oil companies who are attached to the gov’t teat…
    I also don’t need to look to history to find homeless children in america. We have the infant mortality rate of a third world country. I don;t see how it gets worse than that. Also, seniors having to choose between medicine and food, and also being homeless.

    "Not one of these taxes existed 100 years ago
    and there was prosperity, absolutely no national debt,
    the largest middle class in the world and Mom stayed
    home to raise the kids. "

    Actually, the rich paid the taxes back then and there were luxury taxes to be paid on luxury items. And, 100 years ago there was abject poverty in this country and senior citizens who had no money were homeless and there were alot of them. There were alot of homeless children as well. To say there was a large middle class 100 years ago isn’t quite true. It was a growing middle class but the majority of people in this country were not middle class then. Many were poor farmers and sharecroppers. The poor in the cities out numbered the middle class and they worked in the factories under horrible conditions. Child labor laws were not implemented yet either. So, you need to do a little more digging into your history. The middle class is getting shafted though, you are right about that. And, the richest 3% and the corporations are making off like thieves with offshore accounts to avoid paying taxes and with huge government subsidies in the billions in the form of grants. Those are going to corporations that are already hugely profitable. And they are being paid to take their businesses to other countries by our tax dollars.

    $3,000,000 Luxury Home For Sale in Austin, TX. Luxury Homes in Texas.

    Posted by admin on April 6th, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | No Comments »

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    What would you do if you got a letter like this from your boss?

    Posted by admin on April 6th, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | 8 Comments »

    All My Valued Employees,

    There have been some rumblings around the office about the future of this company, and more specifically, your job. As you know, the economy has changed for the worse and presents many challenges. However, the good news is this: The economy doesn’t pose a threat to your job. What does threaten your job however, is the changing political landscape in this country.

    However, let me tell you some little tidbits of fact which might help you decide what is in your best interests.

    First, while it is easy to spew rhetoric that casts employers against employees, you have to understand that for every business owner there is a back story. This back story is often neglected and overshadowed by what you see and hear. Sure, you see me park my Mercedes outside. You’ve seen my big home at last years Christmas party. I’m sure; all these flashy icons of luxury conjure up some idealized thoughts about my life.

    However, what you don’t see is the back story.

    I started this company 28 years ago. At that time, I lived in a 300 square foot studio apartment for 3 years. My entire living apartment was converted into an office so I could put forth 100% effort into building a company, which by the way, would eventually employ you.

    My diet consisted of Ramen Pride noodles because every dollar I spent went back into this company. I drove a rusty Toyota Corolla with a defective transmission. I didn’t have time to date. Often times, I stayed home on weekends, while my friends went out drinking and partying. In fact, I was married to my business — hard work, discipline, and sacrifice.

    Meanwhile, my friends got jobs. They worked 40 hours a week and made a modest $50K a year and spent every dime they earned. They drove flashy cars and lived in expensive homes and wore fancy designer clothes. Instead of hitting the Nordstrom’s for the latest hot fashion item, I was trolling through the Goodwill store extracting any clothing item that didn’t look like it was birthed in the 70’s. My friends refinanced their mortgages and lived a life of luxury. I, however, did not. I put my time, my money, and my life into a business with a vision that eventually, some day, I too, will be able to afford these luxuries my friends supposedly had.

    So, while you physically arrive at the office at 9am, mentally check in at about noon, and then leave at 5pm, I don’t. There is no "off" button for me. When you leave the office, you are done and you have a weekend all to yourself. I unfortunately do not have the freedom. I eat, and breathe this company every minute of the day. There is no rest. There is no weekend. There is no happy hour. Every day this business is attached to my hip like a 1 year old special-needs child. You, of course, only see the fruits of that garden — the nice house, the Mercedes, the vacations… You never realize the back story and the sacrifices I’ve made.

    Now, the economy is falling apart and I, the guy that made all the right decisions and saved his money, have to bail-out all the people who didn’t. The people that overspent their paychecks suddenly feel entitled to the same luxuries that I earned and sacrificed a decade of my life for.

    Yes, business ownership has is benefits but the price I’ve paid is steep and not without wounds.

    Unfortunately, the cost of running this business, and employing you, is starting to eclipse the threshold of marginal benefit and let me tell you why:

    I am being taxed to death and the government thinks I don’t pay enough. I have state taxes. Federal taxes. Property taxes. Sales and use taxes. Payroll taxes. Workers compensation taxes. Unemployment taxes. Taxes on taxes. I have to hire a tax man to manage all these taxes and then guess what? I have to pay taxes for employing him. Government mandates and regulations and all the accounting that goes with it, now occupy most of my time. On Oct 15th, I wrote a check to the US Treasury for $288,000 for quarterly taxes. You know what my "stimulus" check was? Zero. Nada. Zilch.

    The question I have is this: Who is stimulating the economy? Me, the guy who has provided 14 people good paying jobs and serves over 2,200,000 people per year with a flourishing business? Or, the single mother sitting at home pregnant with her fourth child waiting for her next welfare check? Obviously, government feels the latter is the economic stimulus of this country.

    The fact is, if I deducted (Read: Stole) 50% of your paycheck you’d quit and you wouldn’t work here. I mean, why should you? That’s nuts. Who wants to get rewarded only 50% of their hard work? Well, I agree which is why your job is in jeopardy.

    Here is what many of you don’t understand … to stimulate the economy you need to stimulate what runs the economy. Had suddenly government mandated to me that I didn’t need to pay taxes, guess what? Instead of depositing that $288,000 into the Washington black-hole, I would have spent it, hired more employees, and gene

    SOME OF YOU SHOULD TRY STARTING AND RUNNING A BUSINESS,I’LL BET YOU COME BACK WITH A DIFFERENT ATTITUDE AND ANSWER AFTER YOU DO. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO UNDERSTAND THIS NO EXPLANATION IS NECESSARY,FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DON’T ON EXPLANATION COULD EXPLAIN IT.

    Does Obama love ALL terrorists?

    Posted by admin on April 4th, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | 14 Comments »

    Barack Obama’s very first political fundraiser, when he was tapped to replace Alice Palmer in the Illinois State Senate, was a party hosted by Michael Ayers and Michelle Dorm in their home. Ayers and Dorm, of course, are the unrepentant "Weathermen" terrorists who have said that not only do they not regret their bombings, they think they didn’t do enough.

    When terrorist supporter Rashid Khalidi was deported for his outspoken support of Hamas terror campaigns, he was thrown a lavish "Going away" party in a Chicago luxury hotel. The host? Barack Obama. In charge of ticket sales? Michael Ayers. This was, doubtless, payback for Khalidi’s active fund raising for Obama in Illinois’ Muslim community.

    Now, today, comes his latest support for terrorists. SLA baby killer Sara Jane Olson, who participated in car bombings and other atrocities, and who herself personally kicked a pregnant bank teller in the stomach while she lay helpless on the floor at gunpoint, causing her to miscarry, has been released after serving less than half her sentence.

    Richard

    If you say so>*

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    How do I approach this sticky situation with a friend who has stricken me from his list? ?

    Posted by admin on April 2nd, 2010 and filed under luxury home for sale | 3 Comments »

    I was looking for a house to buy. A friend had a house for sale that seemed pretty nice and the friend was struggling financially. We worked it out that I would try to buy the house for a certain price to keep my friend from getting into further financial trouble. The price was below what he owed so I had to work it out with the bank. In the meantime to help him out with the payment, I moved in and paid rent every month. He did not keep up on the payments, he spent the money on everything but the mortgage payment. While I was in the process of negotiations with the broker and mortgage company I found out that the house was going through foreclosure. The bank would not budge on their asking price. I was concerned that I would not be able to come to an agreed upon price for the house, the place would be foreclosed on and I would be out of a place to live so I looked around for other places to buy because it did not look like anything was going to happen with this deal. I found a place that was almost the same as my friend’s place. There was no negotiation with this house. It was nearby and had the most of same things that I was looking for in a house, some things were even nicer than my current place. The market was good, interest rates down, and I made an offer that they accepted. I told my friend and he immediately became mad at me because he said that I had agreed to buy his house and that would keep him from destroying his credit. He became really upset with me and our 15+ year friendship was on the rocks. He decided that he did not even want me around and stopped emailing me and did not call me anymore. He did not invite me to his son’s christening, his son and daughter are my God children!

    I am very worked up about this. We have mutual friends and have been friends for a long time. I was only trying to help out a friend but when things were not looking promising, I had to take advantage of the market and what was in front of me.

    Do you think that I am wrong to consider this person my friend when he won’t even allow me at his home or children’s events because I did not buy his house?

    How can I communicate with him without apologizing? I don’t feel that I did anything wrong.

    He keeps saying that we were supposed to be friends and that he can’t understand how I could go and buy something else when he is a friend and going through a hard time. He has a huge house, beautifully furnished, three kids, new cars, toys, trips. He cannot afford the second house because he does not take care of his current financial obligations before taking on luxuries. I just feel that the blame is being placed squarely on my shoulders when I am just a tiny fraction of the entire equation? Am I wrong?

    I just want to know what to email him without apologizing. I am not sorry that I was taking care of myself and my family first.
    Thanks,
    Sandford

    Only thing you can do is write him a letter and tell him what you said in your question basically. I may have let him know about the other place before I went ahead and did it, that was kind of sneaky on your part since you said you did offer to purchase his house. Although his mess up was just wrong so sounds like the situation he had envisioned wasn’t going to be. Especially since he spent the rent/mortgage money on other luxuries, I can’t blame you one bit. Tell him this but don’t be a jerk about it and tell him you want a truce. He isn’t innocent and so I’d say he needs to get over his mistakes and move on, he should quit holding a grudge. Call a truce and see if he responds. If not, you tried and somehow move on. People do this all the time. Good luck and hope you guys can just call it a scratch and save your friendship, life is too precious! Tell him that also.